This christmas will be the first year with my darling boy. Still remember last year, we went to snow city unaware of i already got my bb inside...wow run up and down so many times , so enjoy ....(there is a signboard showing pregnant woman are not allowed....)

I really dont wish to cut weijun's hair,

his hair is so cute, hehe...maybe i will

for another few months....

4th months old

at last weijun can do this position on his own during his 4 mth old.....he is very persistent....try until he succeed...well done boy!!!

Letting It Be
One of the most difficult things to learn in life is acceptance - the ability to just let it be. Every day we encounter people and events that weigh on our peace of mind. Do we let them be? Or do we fret about them?
Now it's important to clarify that when I say "letting it be", I don't mean meekly swallowing all the bitter pills that are forced into your mouth. It's crucial that we understand what we can change and what we can't.
Worrying about your next sales deal is reasonable enough, and this is an instance when worrying can be beneficial. Worry can motivate you to sharpen your skills, put more effort into planning your presentation, and so on.
But vexing about the impossible traffic is plainly pointless. Whether you get upset about it or not, the traffic is going to move when it's going to move; there is nothing you can do to make it go any faster.
As someone once said, we should all wish for the wisdom to know the difference between what we can change and what we can't, and then have the serenity to accept the things we cannot change. We should all understand when we should be climbing over the wall instead of banging our heads against it.
Once we know that something is beyond our power, we should all do better to learn how to let it be. This kind of acceptance sees difficult times as lesson times. This kind of acceptance allows things to unfold naturally. This kind of acceptance learns the lesson, releases the negative emotions and moves on.
When problems threaten to break our peace of mind, most of us tend to focus on the problem, and not on the good things we still have. Consequently, some of us go on to destroy those good things because the problem we're preoccupied with augers a bleak future.
But the next time something or someone is getting you down, shift your focus to something else - your family, your spouse, your friends, your freedom, your health. Someone once shared with me a handy trick to instantly make yourself feel better when you're upset - simply visit a hospital. You'll realize just how insignificant your problems are when you're there. Seeing people who are ill, incapacitated, on their deathbeds, grieving relatives, despondent family members. How fortunate are you compared to them? You have your health, you can do things you love, you can eat whatever you want, you can see your loved ones and have a good time with them, show them how much they mean to you! How many people in the hospital wish they were in your shoes?

this is how bb sleep nowsday>>>>is this something new?????

BB now favourite action is suck suck hand, pull pull his own clothing, drip saliva haha......so my clothing always got saliva......

See how mini is bb's hand....this pic was taken at west coast park, bb poo at the park, this is the second poo for the day liao....wow, why always my turn to clear sheet, my hubby was so lucky hardly got chance to clear leh....why me again..

So lucky to have my sis stayed at BB Condo, haha....see bb can adapt to new environment easily ....bb felt so relaxed here with jiejie's care....

{{{after bath, bb hair will turn curly...this is how he looks}}}

bb started to drip saliva liao, this is one of his favourite position....~~~

old pic....of mine

see do my dardar look like me??????

Mum's Love

When u were 1 year old, she fed u and bathed u
U thanked her by crying all night long.

When u were 2 years old, she taught u to walk
U thanked her by running away when she called

When u were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love
U thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

When u were 4 years old, she gave u some crayons
U thanked her by coloring the dining room table.

When u were 5 years old, she dressed u for the holidays
U thanked her by plopping into the nearest.

When u were 6 years old, she walked u to school
U thanked her by screaming , "I'M NOT GOING!"

When u were 7 years old, she bought u a baseball
U thanked her by throwing it thro the next dr neighbor's window.

When u were 8 years old, she handed u an ice cream
U thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

When u were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons
U thanked her by never even bothering to practise.

When u were 10 years old, she drove u all day fr soccer to gymnastic to one birthday party after another
U thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When u were 11 years old, she took u and your friends to the movies
U thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

When u were 12 years old, she warned u not to watch certain TV shows
U thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

When u were 13 , she suggested a haircut
U thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When u were 14 , she paid for a month away at summer camp
U thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When u were 15 , she came home from work, looking for a hug
U thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When u were 16 , she taught u how to drive her car
U thanked her by taking it every chance u could.

When u were 17 , she was expecting an impt call
U thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When u were 18, she cried at your high school graduation
U thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

When u were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove u to campus carried your bags
U thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so u wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When u were 20, she asked whether u were seeing anyone
U thanked her by saying, "It's none of your biz."

When u were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.
U thanked her by saying, "I don't wan to be like u."

When u were 22, she hugged u at your college graduation
U thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

When u were 23, she gave u furniture for your first apartment
U thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

When u were 24, she met your fiance and asked abt your plans for the future
U thanked her by glaring and growling. "Muuhh-ther, pls!"

Whn u were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told u how deeply she loved u
U thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When u were 30, she called with some advice on the baby
U thanked her by telling her, "Things are different now."

When u were 40, she called to remind u of a relative's birthday
U thanked her by saying u were "really busy right now."

When u were 50, she fell ill and needed u to take care of her
U thanked her by reading abt the burden parents become to their children.

And then, one day she quietly died, And everything u never did came crashing down like thunder on you HEART......

IF SHE IS STILL AROUND, NEVER FORGET TO LOVE HER MORE THAN EVER.....
AND IF SHE'S NOT, REMEMBER HER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND PASS IT ON....
ALWAYS REMEMBER TO LOVE THY MOTHER...
BECAUSE U ONLY HAVE ONE MOTHER IN YOUR LIFETIME....!!!!!!!!

Squeeze into this jean..........

After rearrange one of my wardrobe, sorted them by color, this is how it look, neat or not? But hopefully i can mainten it for long....so i found my jean.....is time to try to put on lah......

Today quite pleased with myself, at last i can managed to wear this jean again cause it is stretchable, yo yo hipi hipi haha......

water>>no milk at night

Yesterday night started my water feeding at night, wanna to try to stop night feeding, heard this way is effective.....haha...after feeding my darling water , he still not satisfied, so gave him some milk to tahan him...jus 4 this time. Going to try tonight again...hopefully he can sleep thro the night very soon^^^